
Despite growing up around the game, Nazia Khan never considered coaching a minor hockey team. Even when her own children started playing and her daughter’s coach suggested it, Khan still thought it was out of the question. Coaching was only for hockey dads, right?
“Even if I was [already] a hockey mom, I don’t look like the typical hockey mom,” laughs Khan, while adjusting her hijab.
Born in Toronto to a French-Canadian mother and South Asian father, Khan started playing hockey around age 12 with the Mississauga Girls Hockey League (MGHL). She never faced any discrimination because of her background while playing, but while reflecting on her own hockey journey, she realized she never had any women as coaches. That made Khan reconsider her position; maybe coaching could (and should) be for hockey moms, too.
“As soon as I started [coaching], I adored it,” Khan says. “I was connecting with the girls and they were so excited to have a female coach.
“I feel like it was impactful for the girls, but it was also impactful for me.”
Yasmeen Rizkana, Khan’s eldest daughter, agreed that the first year her mother coached was very meaningful. But it was also one of her more challenging seasons.
“She was going extra hard on me [as her daughter] and I think that helped me get a lot better that year,” Rizkana says with a smile. “But to this date, she’s one of the best goalie coaches I’ve ever had.”
After a few years of taking on goalie and assistant coach positions, Khan was thrust into a head coaching role when her youngest daughter’s coach left the team because of work. At that point Khan knew she should continue her own coaching education.
Since this was during the COVID-19 pandemic, Khan was able to explore her options online and came across We Are Coaches.
“I saw there was no cost and it was women only, so I thought why not give it a try … and I loved it,” Khan recalls. “I had felt inadequate going the first time because I felt I didn’t know anything but then I heard [from other women that] ‘I had to step up even though I never played hockey and didn’t even know how to skate.’
“And just hearing that there’s a collective of female coaches who want to get better and want to learn, that’s just so huge.”
The We Are Coaches program was created to support and sustain the number of girls and women in hockey, specifically by increasing the number of trained women coaches in the game. Funded by the Hockey Canada Foundation, it is free of charge for participants. Most importantly, it is run by women.
Khan enjoyed her first experience with We Are Coaches so much, she sought out in-person clinics when the IIHF Women’s World Championship came to Brampton in 2023. And now, as an executive member of the MGHL, Khan is working with Hockey Canada to bring the program to Mississauga to encourage more trained women coaches in the game, especially as her own daughters continue to grow in it.
“I’ve talked to some of the coaches that we have, and they all think it will be so good,” Khan says. “I would take these twice…I’m so excited to see what it looks like when we put it together.”
Rizkana also hopes she can be a force for change, encouraging more people with non-traditional hockey backgrounds into the game. Her father is originally from Egypt and didn’t know much about the game until Rizkana and her siblings started playing. But he still supported her through a chance to represent Egypt at the Dreams Nations Cup in New Jersey last year.
“That experience helped me realize [my teammates and I were] breaking down
barriers,” Rizkana says. “It wasn’t just about the cool experience and what
we accomplished for ourselves, it was about being role models for future
generations and encouraging more young girls to start playing hockey.”
The international play also motivated Rizkana to continue pushing for her own hockey goals, which include post-secondary and professional aspirations. But she would also be happy as a builder within the game.
“Even if I can’t make a career out of it, I hope that I can actually make a career for younger girls, if they want it,” Rizkana says.
And with Khan and Rizkana helping to grow the game and build community, there will certainly be plenty of options for other women and girls in the game.
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